Be queen of your own life.
There is a saying that every queen should have a king so that she can have happy life. And people do follow this saying. Also there are people who will question you when you are single and crossed 30s. Quietly lately i m facing this saying in my life , mostly when it comes to my career life. This is just phase which is going to be there and it will passes on,i think most of you have gone through it. Also when it comes working with women organization there will be a women whose only job is to talk about our in- laws or husband gossip when it comes to lunch time . Now imagine how i m dealing with such women , daily some gossip will occur and then there a time and they will ask me that question " beta shaddi kab kar rahi ho? Apki umar bad jayegi? " or if not this a simple taunt " you first do marriage and then u will get to know what m saying.
Indian mentality of women wont change and if they find that you wont fit in there box they will used such tactic to pull you down. This is similar to crab mentality.At first when this was going in my life i used to get frustrated, irritated. Now when this happen i just enjoy it by laughing at them. Come on girls i realised that i m girl who have achived very much in my life at young age ,which they have not , maybe that i reason which they have not done it, they do such thing because they are insure in there life that is reason they used such tactic in your life. Here if you feel you have problem in you life. Pat you back and says to yourself, and remember you are queen of your life .
Indian mentality of women wont change and if they find that you wont fit in there box they will used such tactic to pull you down. This is similar to crab mentality.At first when this was going in my life i used to get frustrated, irritated. Now when this happen i just enjoy it by laughing at them. Come on girls i realised that i m girl who have achived very much in my life at young age ,which they have not , maybe that i reason which they have not done it, they do such thing because they are insure in there life that is reason they used such tactic in your life. Here if you feel you have problem in you life. Pat you back and says to yourself, and remember you are queen of your life .
Girls you are more powerful than they are. Remember the toughest time in your life when there were people who used to quote that " oh you are too old to achieved you goals but you ignored there sayong and focused on your goal and you achieved it . You were able to achieved there goals as you took it as challenge. Think you are queen and it is your life and you are more powerful than them ,
A queen is not like fairy tail that we seen in movies. It is also full of obstacles , politics. So how she deals with everything in her life? She deal with it because she have will power in her self and she trust her gut feeling. Also when our life will have obstacles we become matured enough to deal with it because of experiences that our life teaches us. Think like queen and act.
Yes, there are so many young girls who face this in India. However I feel boys do face the same thing if not as much as girls. You are an incredibly focused person Amoli. I want to read many such blogs written by you. And hence forth would wish to see you writing more about your empowerment...
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