Be bold to accept who you are.

Is marriage compulsory in life? Why it is often that when a marriage is broken society will blame girl only? And even if she marries late society will blame her by labeling her that she has got attitude problem or for her keeping boy is like playing with toy. I mean seriously if a boy does same thing he is never blamed just because he is a boy. I sometimes feel  frustrated that for sake of society you have to do so and so.

 Now-a-days hot topic of our life is either keeping boyfriend or to get married just when you cross you 20s. And yes I feel really pity that girls often accept this marriage concept. They fall inin this trap of marriage direct and indirect ways. Of course why we should blame only on girls only for this, we should blame so called society because right from the childhood we are taught that girl are born to marriage and give birth to life that is mandatory rule of life. On top if we are not taught this we have so called stories books to tell that your price charming will come and shield you from your life troubles. Why we gave importance to male gender? 

Come on girls seriously you are so week that you need bodyguard to keep to safe and happy.... Girl is on your own, do not reliable on anyone. And yes for sake of society do not change yourself or crash your dream just because you are in your 20s. Yes you can wear anything you like; you can buy your own enjoyment ring. I know this decision are tuff but bold enough to face it.

Let me set you all example of myself. I have made choices in my life, made mistake and I do not regret it because it taught me some or other thing and most importantly made be stronger. My heart is strong enough and pure enough to get through my choices that I made. Whenever I was hurt or broken down I took it as challenge and took effort to put my dreams and goal to achieve it.  Yes I’m in my early 30s and I do not regret that I’m still single and happy by not getting married and having babies. Because  deep down I know I will find my soul mate sooner who will accept me as I am and would not regret me because I’m unique in my way. He will not weaken me but definitely make me perfect through his perfection.